[November 2023] Day 11 Topic : Dating

[November 2023]
 
Day 11 Topic : Dating
 
Title : Does Dating Advice Actually Work? Kinda...
 
Link : https://youtu.be/GnoyahuJ_t8?si=c-p7tndc-x6XpAb6

1.Script
Okay, all this crap about finding a romantic partner, does it actually work? So here's the answer: yes, it works, it just takes a really long time. Honestly, it's like opening a loot box, that's what dating is. I don't know exactly what the odds are. There are certain things you can do to improve the odds. But at the end of the day, the only guaranteed way to get the item is to keep opening loot boxes. I don't know what the odds are. I wish I could tell you, but in my experience, if you have like no social skills whatsoever and you're like going nowhere in life, give it at least five years. And for those of you who are saying, 'I can't do this for five years, that sounds depressing,' like, I don't know what else to tell you. Give yourself five years to grow into a human being that someone else would want to date. Work on your social skills, get financially independent, get into shape physically, take care of your mental health. Like, this stuff takes time. The other thing is, I don't actually think it's going to take five years. But here's the magical thing: if you give yourself five years, you won't expect anything in two years. When you're not expecting it, that's when it's the most likely to happen.
 
2. Expression
Work on my social skills
Get financially independent
Take care of my mental health
When I'm not expecting it, that's when it's the most likely to happen
 
3. My story
I've always believed that to form healthy relationships, I need to be a good person first. So, I work on my social skills, striving to understand and connect with others better. I'm also working to get financially independent, believing that self-reliance brings confidence in interactions. Taking care of my mental health is a priority too. I've noticed that when I'm not expecting it, that's when genuine, meaningful connections are most likely to happen.